Unlucky Friday nite tat makes me realise I'm lucky

After work I m all ready 2 go out 2 meet Sonny, Alice + David. Although jam for 2.5 hours from Ampang to Atria, PJ but seeing them makes it all worth it. V drink, eat a bit, laff a lot n sang some songs, Sonny is d oni 1 who sang while Alice echoed. When it's time 2 go home, David noticed my headlights is on. Damn. I was rushing out coz 1st I'm late, 2nd it's boring after 2.5 hours in car facing d stupid jam.

David tried 2 jump start my car battery (Kelisa) using his car battery (City) but not successful so I call bro lor. Sigh, feel bad actually have 2 mafan him everytime i got car prob. He came all d way 2 PJ 2 help me in d middle of d nite, almost 12++ when all finish. Bro came and jump start using his car n lucky it is ok liao. When I reach home, I purposely off d engine n restart, lucky no prob else mom will kill me. Anyway, I know she will sam tung 1st I use his son's service for free n 2nd I so careless n leave d lights on.

I think I shall repay my bro by not getting him 2 pay for KC n his Bangkok flight tixs. It's also bcoz I love him. He's not perfect but he's a good bro. I ain't heavy, I'm his sister :P Dunno he think d same o not?

This incident let me know tat I alwaz have a good bro tat I can rely on n frens tat will not leave me alone. David Chia, thanks a lot for helping me out.

I went for ear candling yday b4 I cut my hair :P. It's oni half an hour n frankly speaking, I enjoyed d massage while waiting 4 d waxed cloth 2 burn more. My left ear shows tat I am a bit tired but my right ear shows tat my right side is very tired n stressed. I guess it's bcoz I'm right handed n mostly rely on my right hand + shoulder. It's a good experience, 1st trial :P

Then I cut my hair for RM20.00. Chris saloon has changed boss, named Andy but he seems like very bz n all other boys seems like really young n beginer so I move on 2 another saloon. Btw, Andy charge RM17.00 to cut hair most probably doesn't include washing. I went into few other saloon n mostly r priced @ RM35 to RM40.

3 years ago, I still have my very long hair, straight, then 2 years ago I had bob hair, last year I bombed my hair n this year I cut it short again. Dunno if this look can stay till after CNY coz I'm out of style very fast coz not good @ taking k of it.

KC Mom's Bday Oct 2007 (Very Long Hair)

Kath Wedding Sept 2008

CNY 2009 @ Fimaco

2day @ PJ Club

But I'll try not 2 cut my hair as I wanna have a shoulder length hair tat I can tie up a bit. Alwaz short hair so this year wanna keep a long hair liao. Let c if I can do tat.

Btw, I jz notice everybody who takes pix wit me alwaz look fairer except for Kew Shee Heng :P

Is it bcoz of CNY pressure (family gathering) or I m really getting old?

Suddenly I feel very kan cheong n pressure esp in trying 2 get bak wit Bean n he seems like emm teh emm diu (tak ape attitude). I wanna get bak wit him but not desperate (seriously). Called Bean 2 meet up last sun but he was bz wit work till midnite n I sms him 2day saying wanna meet up but he said dunno yet.

~!@#$%^&*()_+ he think I sit here n wait for him ar. This is so frustrating, when I make effort n he seems like tak ape. wtf

The pressure is I m 30 (in Chinese Calendar) goin 2 b 30 very soon (jz another year) n all almost my frens r married o have plans 2 tie d knot this year o next year. Congratulations to Sook Kien + hubby who will b registering on 12th Feb 2010, on my bithday!!! But me still not stable + breaking up wit Bean. :(

This year, not oni relatives will tease me but MANY frens (some even younger than me) will also tease me not getting married yet n still taking their angpow.

Another prob is my biological clock is ticking faster than few years bak. Lucky no obvious signs of white hairs yet but I sense some wrinkle esp when I smile laff out loud, some gal frens will b very obvious kind n remind me about tat.

I oso wanna have bb b4 I’m 2 old for tat. :p It’s funny thinking few years bak I die die dun wanna give birth bcoz so scared of d pain but now I wan bb coz I’ve seen others r all so cute. I wanna have d feeling of live within me, a small moving hand or feet inside me. It’s really amazing.

Btw, had my facial on Monday bcoz swimming class was postpone to next Monday. Signed up for another RM49 facial for me + Amanda, a RM49 body massage for relaxing n a RM99 for bust firming. Ok, another hint I’m getting older. Will b getting my hair cut on 2molo and Friday will b meeting Sonny, Alice + David. So miss them + all d old Faber crazy time. Sat will get my broadband.

On Monday nite, Winsen came n tok 2 me about his plan n teach me a few things @ Wong Kok Leisure Mall. Initially I wanna bring him 2 Boston o Oldtown located @ Craving Lane @ Leisure Mall. They have a sky of stars with 2 changing colors, blue n purple. Very nice geh. But they close early, still Winsen get 2 c it n wasn’t as excited as I am. I notice d sky of stars when I went dinner wit mom at Boston once n then bring d whole family there once. Wanna share d nice scene wit Winsen geh but he dun appreciate.

CNY Feel

Last week I went to Nichii warehouse sales @ Shamelin. All together, I’ve bot 4 dresses, 5 tops, mom bot a top (which doesn’t really suit her but she said she will go on diet) and sis bot a top and a legging which bills to a little bit more than RM200.00. I also bump into Kuki choosing dress for her “special” event, dunno she manage 2 get o not. My mom said she’s very thin, again teasing my recent weight gained. I also went 2 pasar malam last nite & bot another dress.

There’s oledi a lot of red colors decorations & CNY music everywhere & lotsa red color & CNY style clothes r seen everywhere. I saw a lot of cookies which I wanna eat (not KUKI) & I can’t wait 2 eat kam aka mandarin oranges. Mom said this year v will fry loose crabstick. Yummy!!!

Can’t wait for CNY.

Planning Group trips

It’s not easy to organise trip even for small group of frens.

Case 1: College buddies

First we knot decide on a place; Taiwan, Bandung or Gold Coast and Sydney. Then v knot decide for whole Taiwan or Taipei only. Then v knot decide when is d best time to go n if all of us can go @ d same time. Finally, v cancel this trip n it’s oni replace wit Perhentian but still v r not sure on d date yet.

Now part 2 of d argument discussion is when 2 go 2 Pulau Perhentian. Since May will b goin 2 Bangkok n I’ll b goin 2 Hong Kong (yeah!!!) both of us in March 2010, v r not keen 2 take leaves again so soon in early Apr as proposed by Amanda. So, another headache.

Case 2: Buddies

First n most troublesome Ken propose Koh Samui, his favourite expensive oversea trip but finally gives in 2 Tioman, Langkawi or Penang. He wanted Penang but I purposely put it last coz tat’s my least fav. Now depends on Kean Seng, Rain, Choon Meng, Rachael, Jeffrey, Amily, Sooki Kien + hubby, Ming, May, Tze Lung, Ying, Caryn + Fai.

Well, usually their concern wud b $$$ n leaves. I think this v can work it out.

Case 3: Sec Skool

This is so far d easiest. V all paid RM50 initially is 2 avoid ppl ffk n also 2 book immediately when airasia got promo but since some of our frens will b in Hong Kong in Mar, v decided 2 join them although d tix is not cheap. Carine + Lai + Heng + Lau Kam + me used 2 travel 2gether regularly during our skool time and few years bak. V had some hysterically funny stories, shared prostitute motel 2gether n zzz 2gether numerous time. Although it’s oni Carine + Lau Kam + Tracy + me for this Hong Kong trip n 2 meet up wit Catherine + hubby Edwin + Yi Chian + hubby Lee + other frens.

Well, it’s jz difficult 2 arrange n make plans in groups no matter big o small. Every1 is so bz nowadays. Dun say trip, yumcha oso difficult 2 get all out @ d same time.

So let’s cherish d happy time v haf 2gether. Enjoy our holidays!

New Office ICCE

2day is my 2nd day working for this French boss.

I think I jinx this company. Yday being my 1st day at work, I kinds broke the upper office door during lunch time and this morning, my boss had difficulty in opening d main office door downstairs and when I take water from the dispenser, I notice there’s some water on the floor but ignore it. Then my boss said d tap from d dispenser is broken.

I just hope he’s not superstitious and fire me by end of this week.

There’s pros & cons working for him.

He’s very independent & have lots of things done prior 2 my arrival but I gotta follow his way & doesn’t understand his way of filling. Damn. He also ask me 2 call his supplier & get quotations. Dah lah his English is not easy 2 understand, I oso dunno those weird technical specs and jargons. Makes me feel kinda useless.

Let c 2molo how.

Bean din sms me last nite but he called me this morn but I din pick up. Still no decision yet. Half an hour ago, I really think v shud break up but 10 minutes ago I think mayb v can work things out n wanna give it another try. Sigh, I dare not 2 take another step forward bcoz I have no idea wat’s d next rite step for us. Did I think 2 much? Mayb I shud jz enjoy current moment n dun think 2 much of d future? O I shudn’t have wasted time enjoying now n ignoring d future?

Mr. Right

Reading this article from msn:

http://lifestyle.malaysia.msn.com/Relationships/article.aspx?cp-documentid=3775699&page=1 makes me realise this is true. The world is so big, there are so many ppl in this world, takkan there is oni 1 guy suitable for me. There must b a few and comes with differ offer lar.

Still I'm still considering of grabing this "not so perfect" mr right bean n try 2 work things out. As said, nobody is perfect n this time + many of other times, it wasn't his fault. I shud b more considerate 2 him like I did 2 d other husband, lover "mr. mayb rite"  :P He is not d perfect mr. right but mayb v can work things.

It's obvious isn't it. After so much tok, I'm still giving him chance. I guess he's d same 2, he still keep on sending me sms, not giving up YET. & yes, tat's all he did, oni sms + sometimes calls which I've never answer for a month long, no other action such as come 2 my hse find me, dun let me go when I went 2 his hse drunk. Anyway, this is still my confusion, is it he dun k n dun love me o he's really STUPID?

Enuf wit d no ending love prob. 2day will b my last day @ MEB, Steven let me goes 1 day early but promise 2 pay my salary till Friday, which is 8th. Let c if he will keep his promise. Fri no need 2 work, Mon start new job.

Courtesy from May,

This is true. wtf!

New Year New Prawn New Blog :)

M now starting this new blog 2 celebrates my new prawn life in 2010.

Wasn’t in a fantastic mood, had a fight with Bean since last month still not getting better and m considering break up. Wat’s the point 2 keep on wasting time rite?

Bean is a nice man, seriously but many said tat nice doesn’t mean it’s suitable 4 me, which is true. V r very d not compatible geh. Dun blame him as I totally know this is 2 ways. Well, m still considering.

As a 1st post in 2010, let me make some new year resolution.

#1: Hopefully I can remember 2 maintain & update this blog. As a forgetful prawn, this shall be a reminder of wat went thru my lifes for the past year.

#2: I need 2 really organise my lives, do things appropriately & dun let it jz past.

#3: Watch my diets, maintain my weigh @ less than 50kg & continue hiking + swimming + yoga @ wii.

#4: Oh, I oso need 2 remind myself 2 watch my temper & b more considerate of ppl ard me.

#5: Learn 2 read at least 260 Chinese words by 31st December 2010.

Well, there r more I’m hoping 2 declare such as try baking or cooking again, learn a new skill, travel 2 other country but I guess let’s start wit this 5 resolution for year 2010.

Btw, I will be starting a new job next mon with a French boss.